Women who stray ... to be with another woman

i recently came across a few gentleman, and ladies too, that were concerned with what recently has transpired in their marital lives. It seems this has become a trend in society lately, at least we are finding it more in the Bay Area. We are finding women who are leaving their husbands to pursue other women. Both men and women who are faced with divorce is one thing, but think about the added element of surprise when you hear that your lover left you for a same sex partner. If you are faced with this new problem, and not sure what to do, start here. I welcome anyone male or female who is struggling through a heterosexual marriage and feeling overwhelmed and anxious because of this added dynamic.